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INFORMATION

What causes depression?  The immediate cause may be that we have (1) given up on some important goal (e.g., felt failure), (2) had some important source of goal fulfillment removed from us (e.g., someone left us), (3) be in a state with no important goals on our mind (e.g., completed a goal or become uncertain about what we want), or (4) be underchallenged and understimulated by our situation.

People who experience depression habitually often have one or more of the following characteristics: (1) a negative or underdeveloped philosophy of life, (2) low self-esteem, (3) a bias toward negative thinking or "deprivation thinking" , (4) expectations that are unrealistically high, (5) low assertiveness or interpersonal skills, (6) low emotional coping skills, and/or (7) beliefs that cause too much self-sacrifice and self-deprivation.

ADVICE 
To overcome temporary depression,  one can look at each area of one's life (career, relationships, health, recreation, finances, etc.) and identify the problem areas.  Then find a way of either getting more fulfillment in that area by developing a realistic plan to meet your goals OR accept the reality of the situation and find new meaning by committing  yourself to new (or revised) goals that will lead to happiness, and by developing plans that you feel confident will lead to satisfying those new goals.  When Victor Frankl was in a concentration camp, he had to find goals that he could meet there.  He found ways to help other prisoners and survive.  Some of his free time was spent leading a rich fantasy life that brought happiness.  So bad circumstances do not preclude the possibility of happiness.  You can choose to be happy even in the worst of circumstances. 

To overcome more habitual (chronic) depression, then look at some of the factors described above and honestly assess yourself on these factors, and develop a self-development plan for overcoming them.  Counseling (see below) can be an important part of that plan, as can reading self-help books, taking self-development classes, and exploring the recommended Internet sites. Some people may require medication, but that should be determined jointly by a psychiatrist and your own observation of what helps you.

Also, if you have not already done so, take the SHAQ CARES assessment that is a part of this web site (click here) to see which factors may be causing your depression.

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INTERNET LINKS 

Unhappiness, Low Motivation, and Depression

For readings by Dr. Tom Stevens that deal with each of the factors causing depression mentioned above, see below:
(1) A negative or underdeveloped philosophy of life
Choosing to be Happy    
Develop a positive philosophy    Develop a positive world view 
Develop more optimism

(2) Low self-esteem
Improve your self-esteem and self-confidence

(3) A bias toward negative thinking, deprivation thinking, or expecting too much of others.
Develop a positive world view       Overcome deprivation thinking

(4) Self-Expectations that are unrealistically high
Learn how to set more realistic goals and expectations       Don't expect too much of others

(5) Low assertiveness or interpersonal skills
Go to the page on interpersonal skills

(6) Low emotional coping skills
Learn how to make situations more (positively) challenging and stimulating

(7) Beliefs that cause too much self-sacrifice and self-deprivation.
Learn that such beliefs only lead to unhappiness  
Learn how to view your own happiness as important

Additional Internet References:

**** American Psychological Association:
Mood Disorders, Bipolar Disorder, Depression, Suicide 
http://www.psychwww.com/resource/selfhelp.htm#mood

*** Online Depression Screening Test
Waguih William IsHak, M.D. New York University
http://www.med.nyu.edu/Psych/screens/depres.html

***World Health Organization Clinical Research Unit for Anxiety and Depression information about depression
http://www.crufad.com/selfhelp/depression.htm


**American Psychological Association self-help brochures
http://helping.apa.org/sitemap.html

*** National Depressive and Manic-Depressive Association
www.ndmda.org 

***AAS - American Association of Suicidology 
http://www.suicidology.org

***AFSP - American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
www.afsp.org 

***Virtual Pamphlet Collection of the University of Chicago--SEE DEPRESSION
Free online pamphlets about relationships and many other topics written by psychologists and other counselors from University Counseling Centers across U.S.A.
http://counseling.uchicago.edu/vpc

***NIMH Suicide Information
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/publicat/depsuicidemenu.cfm

***NARSAD - National Alliance for Research on Schizophrenia & Depression
http://www.mhsource.com

Self-Esteem, Internal Control, and Assertivenes

Low self-esteem and low Internal Control and Assertiveness are often part of the root causes of depression.

Go to help sections on Self-Esteem, Internal Control, Assertion Training

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BOOKS & MEDIA 

Victor Frankl M.D. Man's Search For Meaning.

David Burns M.D. Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy.

Tom G. Stevens PhD, You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression.

GO TO: book_sites.htm

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CSULB REFERRALS

To be developed later.

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CSULB Student Services

Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS)
CSULB students can obtain free counseling from licensed psychologists for almost any type of personal problem including relationships and family problems; stress, anxiety, depression, anger, grief; academic-related concerns; career decision-making; crises; and almost any type of self-development issue.  We offer individual and group counseling, workshops, and self-help materials including this web site. Brotman Hall, Room 226; 562-985-4001; web site: www.csulb.edu/~caps

Other student services and student organizations may also be helpful
Go to CSULB student information page for a comprehensive list of student services and activities

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Success and Happiness Home Page  
Success and Happiness Attributes Questionnaire (SHAQ) to assess self on many factors 
    
Self-Help Internet Links (List only sites with useful FREE information)

Free, full-length self-help manuals. Psychologist Dr.Tom Stevens' Web Site at www.csulb.edu/~tstevens
Free, chapters from Dr. Stevens book, You Can Choose To Be Happy   
Index of FREE SELF-HELP materials available on Dr. Stevens' web site  
  
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