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Appendix D: from You Can Choose To Be Happy, Tom G. Stevens
PhD
NEGATIVE COGNITIVE STYLES
Contents: Negative selective abstraction
Dr. Aaron Beck recognized that people who have chronic problems with depression, anxiety, guilt, and other negative emotions usually have a negative thinking bias. Research has supported the efficacy of cognitive therapy (called cognitive restructuring) that replaces these styles with more positive thinking. Negative bias. Negative bias is a tendency to look at the more negative side of
some event, person, object, or situation. It gives a negative interpretation or
a negative point of view for looking at a situation.
Negative selective abstraction. Selective abstraction means taking negative features of a situation out of context and exaggerating their significance. Usually it also means negating positive features. Example: A student who gets four "A"s and one "C," then focuses on the "C's." Instead think:
Overgeneralization. When we overgeneralize, we assume far-reaching conclusions from limited data. A student made a "D" on one test. She overgeneralizes, she doesn't just think "Well, I messed up on that one test. Instead, "I may not pass the course, not ever finish college." "I must be stupid and a failure." "My whole life is ruined." Instead think:
Thinking in extremes--exaggerating differences, dichotomous thinking. Everything is either black or white, wonderful or awful, always or never. It leads to exaggerated emotions. Catastrophizing may provide an excuse for not being able to deal with it and get rewarded by others. Instead think:
==>Refer especially to chapters 1, 3, 4, 5 to increase positive thinking. To check them out GO TO the Choose To Be Happy CONTENTS (click here)
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