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INFORMATION 
Anxiety is one of the most basic emotions. People more commonly use the word stress when they are feeling the emotion anxiety.  Nervousness, fear, upsetness, worry, and guilt can all be considered forms of anxiety.

One basic cause  of anxiety is being uncertain about whether or not important goals, needs, or values will be satisfied.  Many of the self-help materials  that concern changing beliefs and skills to increase success and happiness can reduce anxiety.  Anxiety coping methods deal directly with anxiety.  Refer to the  CHUG-OF mental control strategies.  Other methods help with anxiety in specific situations such as dealing with an interpersonal conflict.  If the anxiety is caused by fear of not being able to cope well with the situation, learning conflict-resolution skills can help.  If it due to fear of some terrible outcome of the conflict, then one might have to examine one's inner motivation and change some basic beliefs, expectations, or goals to overcome the anxiety. If it is due to a residual conditioning from having had bad experiences in similar situations in the past a technique such as systematic desensitization may help.  Emotional coping strategies, skill building, changing underlying cognitions, and positive exposure techniques are the four most basic and powerful ways of learning how to overcome anxiety in almost any situation.

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ADVICE 
Try to determine the following yourself:

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List the values, goals, and/or expectations that you are afraid won't be met? Also, what level or degree is your expectation (how high is it)?

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How realistic are your expectations and goals?  Will changing your expectations or goals help reduce the anxiety?  For help with changing goals and expectations, click here.

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Are there several life areas affected--career, family, significant other, income, health, recreation, etc.? If so, your anxiety will be higher.

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List external and internal resources you have for dealing with the problem(s). 

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Is uncertainty about how to deal with this situation (what to think or do) a factor in  your anxiety?  If so, first make a list of steps that can help you solve at least part of the problem. Then get help advice from someone who has solved similar problems successfully, a web site, a book, or an expert.

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If this is an ongoing problem, do you need to build some skill to increase your ability and confidence for dealing with the problem? If so develop a plan to build the skill.  Perhaps it is a specific situation that you can get direct advice to help with.  For example our web links have many useful tips for dealing with interpersonal problems that can make an immediate difference.

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Are low self-esteem, negative thinking, prolonged fears. a history of anxiety in this area, or some other more personal issue behind much of the anxiety?  If so, try to examine these and get counseling (see below).

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INTERNET LINKS 

Stress, Anxiety, Fear, Guilt, Phobias, etc.

For a general understanding of the MOST BASIC CAUSES OF ANXIETY, try the following:
You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression,
Chapter 7

For some GENERAL anxiety-reduction methods, try the following:

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 2 (How to explore your anxiety to identify underlying causes of your anxiety) 

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 8 (The Six CHUG-OF Mental Control Strategies to get control of your emotions)

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 8 (The LAPDS ways to lower anxiety by changing goals and expectations)

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 3 (How to use your Higher Self to build confidence and resolve inner conflicts) 

For methods to help with a SPECIFIC SITUATION where anxiety may be a problem, go to the topic that you are concerned about.  Start with the references below:

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 4 (How to deal with your worst fears of death, poverty, loneliness, etc) 

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 5 (How to deal with self-esteem-related fears and anxiety)

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 6 (How to deal with anxiety related to trying to please others, codependency, or non-assertiveness) 

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 9 (How to deal with problems related to lack of achievement)

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 9 (How to deal with problems related to feeling overwhelmed, too much to do, time-management problems)

You Can Choose To Be Happy: "Rise Above" Anxiety, Anger, and Depression, 
Chapter 8: FOCUS (How to deal with fears related to any kind of performance anxiety including speaking in public, test anxiety, meeting people, etc) 

Using the Systematic Desensitization Technique to overcome specific fears and phobias  Research has proven the systematic desensitization technique to be extremely effective in overcoming conditioned anxiety (as from repeated or highly traumatic experiences). Conditioned anxiety is the anxiety left over after resolving the underlying cognitive issues. 

Dealing with Panic and Runaway emotions: 

CSULB=>Overcoming Runaway and Prolonged Emotions
Explanation of the underlying causes of panic attacks, deep depressions, "temper tantrums" and other runaway emotions cycles and some tips for stopping the cycle. Dr. Tom Stevens
http://www.csulb.edu/~tstevens/c10-emot.htm

OTHER INTERNET LINKS

***American Psychology Association (APA) information about anxiety disorders
http://www.apahelpcenter.org

 

***World Health Organization Clinical Research Unit for Anxiety and Depression information 
About panic disorder and agoraphobia:


**OnLine Anxiety Checklist NYU School of Medicine
http://www.med.nyu.edu/Psych/screens/anx.html

ADAA - Anxiety Disorders Association of America
www.adaa.org 

***Virtual Pamphlet Collection of the University of Chicago--SEE ANXIETY
Free online pamphlets about relationships and many other topics written by psychologists and other counselors from University Counseling Centers across U.S.A.
http://counseling.uchicago.edu/vpc

International Stress Management Association
www.stress-management-isma.org 

Mindtools
www.mindtools.com/smpage.html
  

Also see the general psychological self-help web sites that offer web help for anxiety.

More sites to be added later

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BOOKS & MEDIA 

GO TO: book_sites.htm

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CSULB REFERRALS

CSULB Student Services

Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS)
CSULB students can obtain free counseling from licensed psychologists for almost any type of personal problem including relationships and family problems; stress, anxiety, depression, anger, grief; academic-related concerns; career decision-making; crises; and almost any type of self-development issue.  We offer individual and group counseling, workshops, and self-help materials including this web site. Brotman Hall, Room 226; 562-985-4001; web site: www.csulb.edu/~caps

Other student services and student organizations may also be helpful
Go to CSULB student information page for a comprehensive list of student services and activities

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Free, chapters from Dr. Stevens book, You Can Choose To Be Happy   
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