Rape stories disturb student
I was very disturbed by the article "reported
rape evokes fear" on the front page of Wednesday's Daily Forty-Niner.
The rape did not disturb me, but the way
the paper chose to report the incident, when it obviously did not
have all the information, does disturb me.
Out of respect for those involved, I am
limited in what I can say about what I know to be the facts and how I know
them.
However, I can say that it was unfair to
those involved, especially your unidentified male, to cause an uproar around
campus about this incident. Yes, it has caused an uproar.
Since Wednesday, I can't tell you how many
people are gossiping about the situation and coming to conclusions about
what really happened.
Was she drunk? Was he drunk? Was he sober?
Were they alone? Was there a party? Is Parkside Commons now a dangerous
place to live because of the rape?
These are questions that should not have
been discussed because it is none of these people's business.
I'm not saying people shouldn't be aware
of a rape situation but the Forty-Niner has made this situation out to
be a mad rapist roaming the campus. This is not the case and obviously
the Forty-Niner reporters don't know this.
If you do know this, why wouldn't you write
an article discussing some of the real issues such as being responsible
when you drink, or being aware of the situations you put yourself into,
and whom you chose trust and surround yourself with?
Don't misunderstand me because I'm not
saying it was her fault. I'm saying it was all people's responsibility
to be aware of the situation into which they were all putting themselves.
I was again disturbed by the articles in
Thursday's
paper and the questions posed to students on campus about what they
thought of the reported rape.
How can you expect them to respond when
the information they were given was limited.
You waited almost two weeks to mention
the rape so if it wasn't important to you to speak about right after it
happened, maybe you should have waited another two weeks when you would
have been better informed and received more accurate facts, or at least
worded them better.
Do you really think the unidentified male
and female involved aren't known?
Remember, rumors fly faster than a forest
fire so your articles have already done damage to those involved.
By the way, I live on-campus and I have
no reason to fear for my safety now or before the rape. I feel the dorms
are safe and an enjoyable experience and not where the problems are or
begin.
--Kaci Sewell,
sophomore, psychology
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